I'm wondering if any of you experienced gardeners have had this happen to you? A novice, usually a lazy gardener (LOL) comes to you for advice about a problem they have. They might even write down the solution you suggest. The problem is they expect immediate results by following only part of the plan, then blame YOU because it didn't work. I am almost at the point with a couple people of refusing to talk gardening with them at all. I am a fairly patient person, but how do you get a lazy person "off the couch" so to speak?